@cd4928 That was me! No "guy" here--I'm Patrick. Hello there. About your argument that you can wear the same sweater for ten years and undergo many internal changes. You know, if I twist your true intent some, I kind of believe you. Sometimes we might need for something to be sort of unchanging, stable, dependable, before we make the leap to some other more appropriate "place." Saying this, I know you're saying that internal changes can readily occur, independent of our external surroundings. But yes, I do think we identify ourselves through our objects. Objects are powerful stuff, they can move us closer to where we need to go -- they can co-operate, synergize, with the kind of internal growth you rightly flag as important. Of particular objects, I am now thinking of pcs and of how I truly hope Apple's efforts to switch PC users aren't thwarted by the recession's efforts to switch us all off. People come to associate with smiley apples a...