Reply to Kenneth Alan Adams and Audrey Crosby's "The 2016 Election, Authoritarian Childrearing and our Suicidal Trajectory" (Journal of Psychohistory, Summer 2017)
One
wonders when one reads this article if the foremost interest of Adams and
Crosby is to help us understand why the white working class shouldn't be
blamed for not being able to keep up with the times, or why they damn well should be! Ostensibly, the foremost inspiration of the article is Lloyd
deMause's (borrowing from James F. Masterson) concept of "growth
panic," where those who were mothered by unloved mothers who more needed
their children as anti-depressants than loved them and who abandoned their
children with they showed some inclination to individuate, can no longer handle
living in a society which enables too much pleasure and opportunities for
self-activation. Their inner punitive maternal alters have had it with them, and
with good reason they feel threatened with the prospect of annihilation. Hence
they go "Trump" so they can bond with him as the foremost delegate of
the Mother Nation and war against all the "spoiled" who ostensibly
are willfully ignoring Mother simply to pursue their own commercial pleasures; that is, so they can war against those we know actually came out of warmer childhoods, those
who were fortunate enough to possess more loving mothers, belong of a superior
psychoclass--i.e., progressives. Ostensibly,
that is, Adams and Crosby are encouraging us to understand that when this group
says they want someone who represents the split-off Terrifying Mother
"locked up!," it's because this group’s own mothers, horrifyingly, actually did lock them up in restricting confines for tortuous long periods in
their childhoods--some equivalent of being tightly swaddled, so they could
barely more and barely breathe--and are revenging themselves, while re-staging
the experience, by making themselves, this time, the persecutor. It's horrible,
but absolutely predictable, absolutely inevitable, given that this is what
happens to you when you emerge out of a worse psychoclass: you become
absolutely dreadful as adults, seething intolerant slurs all over the
place, plotting ruination to an abundant array of--if your numbers are large
enough--likely doomed targets.
Societal growth needn't always be threatening
to less evolved psychoclasses, according to Lloyd's theory, if it really mostly
means change, change you have to adapt to. I mean, because according to Lloyd
every group uses a particular societal form to help stabilize their
psyches, projecting parts out into institutions like the army, the courts, the
jails, etc.--yes, just any kind of societal transformation that parts from the one your own
psyche requires for its equilibrium can make you lose your ability to function
sanely in the world. But for complete discombobulation, it's growth that means
more than just industries shifting from one form into another, from coal to
solar, from national production to internationally sourced, from manufacturing
work to mostly service industry, for example, which by itself is really more change than it necessarily is growth, that is the problem, but growth that provides more
opportunities for self-actualization and pleasure than previous. Something that isn't immediately afflicting but rather greatly pleasing, first, readily enjoyed and relished, first, then afflicting--for many, catastrophically so.
There
is no sense that this is why change is so threatening to the white working
class in this article, however. Rather, the change we're facing is simply
a new world of industry replacing an older one, in sort of the unsparing,
necessary way of commerce--just how the
world turns, folks! Business is requited to go where the profits are--no
malice, companies did what they did, turfed millions out of jobs, for
"business was no longer profitable" and they themselves wouldn't
survive if they didn't adapt. And by their portraying the change we're experiencing
like that we're now somehow out of mind to reappraise the white working class,
their motives, their panic, their apparent stupidity and slothfulness, as
absolutely understandable given the huge tumult that remaining in their
own minds "spoiled bad boys and girls" would present them with, but
rather to reinforce the sense of change that every member of the liberal
managerial class is comfortable with: that the world ever churns, and
it is one's responsibility to try to keep up with it rather than foolishly "yearn
for the certainties of a bygone era." And out of this way of construing
change, for their absolute inability to make the least adjustment, it is almost impossibly
hard to not imagine it fair for the white working class to be summarized and
served up in just the same way Hillary did... that is, as racist, sexist,
homophobic a-holes, who shout "Lock her up!," "Grab 'em by the
pussy!," Trump that bitch!"; that is, as those whom we might want to
offer single-payer healthcare to, but whom we righteously hope,
nevertheless, die off, and as fast as possible, so their irresponsible decision
to so early on pitch their tent and refuse adjustments everyone else has been
forced to make is no longer transformed via a political movement into a threat
to waylay the rest of us.
There
is no sense in this article--which, again, is about re-introducing Lloyd's idea
of societal growth panic into our appraisal of the psychological motivations
moving our world--that our greatest obstacle isn't adjusting to growth which
makes demands of us and that has brought down calamities like global climate
change, but adjusting to growth that is allowing us to enjoy ourselves more than
ever before, about it having constituted, for many of us,
so close to everything we've ever dreamed we wouldn't mind if it could just
coast on in its present form forever (as for example David Frum has been
recently arguing for, for a political party that argued for that, principally).
And one wonders if the reason that there is no sense of the fundamental reason
of why our current "neoliberal" growth can be so threatening to us
that it can produce a panic large enough to create apocalypse, in this article,
is because the authors themselves are suffering from the condition; that they are themselves suffering from growth panic.
There
is no sense of themselves as id in this article, only as sober witness, as
super-ego--for it certainly isn't plausibly them, the liberal, educated class
they are part of, that has been responsible for climate growth, is it? They
know, rightfully, that if only people like themselves populated the country climate growth would have been confronted hard, probably two or three decades
ago. Every time the article mentions "we" in the article and it's
"us" doing something horrible, or about to, there's no sense that
they and their friends constitute any part; that they are the ones who have in
any way "succumbed" or who are in any way suffering from this current
plague of growth panic. It's only the idiots, who are everywhere around them,
further grouping into deranged Republicans who want to do the like of passing
off the sale of nuclear weapons that could blow up the planet as merely
reasonable arms deals and who are literally killing good people off of the
streets, so afflicted.
There is
no sense of themselves as those enjoying commercial culture, becoming the
primary engine behind it, in fact, as corporations focus on the buying power of
the liberal managerial class. Rather, only of themselves responsibly making the
adjustments required as society confronts all of us with the necessity of letting things go, independent of whether we were ready to do
so or not; confronting us with, as they say, the "necessity of
individuation," even--a way of making individuation seem about work and
duty rather than grand self-realization--rather than with the pleasure in
revelling and indulging in it. It is of them disengaging from taking easy-way
outs, and of them doing the hard thing, as much as they can, day after day, so
to do their part in furnishing successive generations with the best possible
future. And if we can do that--and
it shouldn't need to be added that WE OURSELVES didn't come out of backgrounds
that were exactly a picnic--then surely the white working class could have
shown at least SOME cooperative spirit in our changing times, rather than
immediately ducking tail and pleading for protective friggin' walls to
keep their precious ways of life intact, for Christ's sake!
I left
the article not only thinking I was well hedged if I mostly wanted to
digest it as one which reinforced my understanding of liberals as mature and
responsible than as an article which had me fully appreciate the difficulties
the working class find themselves caught within--which again, is that if they
allow themselves to individuate, the six horsemen of the apocalypse will be
upon them with a Terrifying Vengeful Mother at the lead, and, essentially,
their brains will melt--but hedged against thinking the influence of our mothers could really ultimately have much to do with their predicament.
The article dips in for a moment, into some kind of essential deMause, and we
see not just "authoritarian parents"--really, what else comes to mind
in "authoritarian parenting" these days where everyone civilized is a
feminist than the abominable father about to terrorize his children
silly?--but authoritarian, torturing, abandoning mom--and her solo--inflicting on her children maybe the kind of
long-abuse that if somehow linked to what afflicts the mind when society grows
and enables one's individuation would of course
draw absolutely everyone to take any available way out--whether
"easy" or not, a distinction they thought important enough to bring
up, for certain so as to make those they’re ostensibly redeeming look terrible, being
irrelevant. And also to rage against, not “convenient (emphasis added)
scapegoats," but logically predictable ones, for their aptly representing
either one’s Guilty Self or the Terrifying Mother. It's contained in one
sentence, this deMausian essence is, and has us thinking of how our early
predatory experience at the hands of our love-starved mothers meant our psyches
being lorded over by installed, watchful, Terrifying Mother alters, who cause
"emotional poisons" of such power they threaten "death" to swamp us when we do the thrilling thing of heading
for the hills, imaginging, finally, becoming our own persons.
But
then afterwards in the article "authoritarian parenting," meaning
almost entirely mom, disappears from the text--not only with it slipping out from
directly referencing specifically her anymore, but by being elided by
the sudden appearance of, certainly not further psychoanalytic criticism, but
the standard wash of socio-cultural criticism that is so dominant right now
it’s insertion is certain to cow back into deference anything previously
scrambled onto the page that represented a different vein of thought and angled
for a different vein of judgment. One that defines white patriarchal conquistadors
in such a way that it near makes us want to kill every Trump-voter on the
planet for their quite clearly criminal creation of a, quote,
"sexist social milieu dominated by male hubris." (Mom-blame,
Hillary-hate, seems not a logical consequence of suffering abuse at the hands of one's own mother, as
it would have on the other page of the article, but of a sexist milieu
which redirects anger aroused owing to one’s vulnerability and disgruntlement in that particular direction.). So hedged, the
article is, to also present the working class, to present Trump-voters, as
those who with "zeal [...] latch onto" things, who dismayingly
"succumb" rather than resist, who wretchedly "retreat from anything
that smacks of [concern]," who childishly feel snubbed and
"aggrieved," whose first instinct is to always "blame" and
who can't for a moment think to begin to "realize," who are, or whose
preferred proxy is, "unforgivably stupid," who are themselves cravenly
"racist, sexist, and xenophobic," than as people who suffered
horribly as children and became in adults what they had no other choice but to
become, it is difficult to not see them as people we're surveying over who are,
more than anything, irredeemably awful, a plague of trolls amongst us (perhaps
to righteously secure some kind of de-facto wall against?).
And
Lloyd would instruct us, that if we're psychohistorically informed, if we
know all about his theory of societal growth panic and its cause and yet
nonetheless even when referencing his theories
we’re still creating an "other" around us that cannot be
differentiated from human filth, then we are ourselves suffering from growth
panic aroused by our own present inability to not sufficiently shut down
growth, and are only managing to press on by making massive use of others as
"poison containers." If we're feeling mostly guilty about our
success, but with some still-existing love-born will and fight to continue
indulging in it, we'll do two things to avoid having to shut it down:
one, we'll narrate ourselves as responsible individuals and make our
accomplishments seem earned in being very hard-won and almost more societally
requisite than individually desired and pleasurable; and two, we'll focus all
guilt onto, not convenient, but apt groups around us, those who are behaving so
reprehensibly already it won't be recognized in our consciousnesses if more
filth was loaded onto them.
Lloyd's
account of what happens when most of us no longer have any psychic escape
hatches left to make us feel less guilty for our growth--as apparently our
growth has become so excessive, nothing can be imagined as slithering through
in altered form that our super-egos could be imagined as any longer
participating in being fooled by--won't mean a leader who is only thinking
"of himself and his rich pals," which is a lingering way
of accessing reality which again makes liberals' power and
wealth wholly of a different kind. It's going to be of Trump as the
chief delegate of our Mother Nation, as someone who ultimately won't be
directing us but only following our instructions. He won't be someone
who primarily identifies with his father--as the article argues he does, in
once again allowing us a hedge against meaningfully digesting its thrilling
trespass, threaded into its middle section, in having previously foregrounded
"mom" and hedence to her, as the root of the problem--but someone
possessed by his torturing mother. Our future, as we pass from a Manic Phase
which manages to keep growth going, albeit compromisingly, crazily, cruelly, to doomed War Phase, where Growth has lost all of its tricks and
wanders around hopeless, waiting for the inevitable shot to the head, is one
where only our best-raised will be exempt from eventually surrendering an
environment which empowers their individuation so to cave properly back to a
mom who could be imagined having any interest in wanting to receive them.
This
is a point I thought the article had no choice but to argue for, given its
deMausian wellspring, but which as a surprise in the end, turned off
of, in favour of arguing that most of us will never fall back from
channeling... Alec Baldwin, not Trump. Unfortunately, if we want to articulate our current situation as
one suffering from pronounced growth panic, the only Alec Baldwin we'll end up
channeling isn't the one poking fun of Trump but the one who'd rage like a
fed-up, furious mother against "spoiled" sons and daughters that show so darn little
respect! And
that Alec Baldwin is pretty much a
Trump-equivalent, not his counter, n’est
pas?
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